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It all started around the Christmas season 2012. Sandra my BLONDE honey began to disappear for a couple of hours at a time just around 5pm till dark. When I asked about it, it was always "well moms sick again and I was running an errand for her", or something like that. By January 18th the excuses had become, "well, dad needs me to come up to the lake with him to keep him company". Mind you, there were lots of people at the marina as permanent residents on cabin cruisers that knew and took care of good ole dad when he was up there. 2-3 days go by and she calls me only 1 time to say she's OK.

Roll around to February, and now its not just 2-3 days of each weekend, its now 2-3 days then 1-2 days at home. By this time the explanations go as follows...."I was helping Rene pack, cause you know she'll be moving out of state soon" or " I'm helping my mom reorganize the rooms so Brandon (my exes 19 yr. old son) can move in and help her out" or "Im going to the Lake again with Brandon and his girlfriend". So now we're in the beginning of February (the 3rd to be exact) and coming home from work around 9:45pm I begin having a small pain in the lower left side of my back...fast forward around 2 hours and im in a full blown kidney stone passing Pain! If you've had kidney stones then you know that there isn't anything you can do to alleviate the pain until that damn little shitty stone stops eeking it way down the kidney passage to the bladder. So, OK its about 3am and finally I go to sleep till around 9:30am. Great got some sleep...thought it was over (wrong).

But in the meantime "She" is running around the house getting ready to go to the farm equipment show...(to which she has never been to in the 8 yrs. of our relationship!). as she's leaving she asks "oh, by the way do you want to go to the ag expo with us?" What the hell, I think to myself, because she knew I was just feeling somewhat better from the nights torture. "no thanks" I said and off she and Brandon went to the farm equipment show! that evening she call to say "we're going to go ahead and head up to the lake where dad and some friends are having beers and BBQ for the next couple of days". No invitation this time. She calls me the next day and says that they're gonna stay another day and will call me soon. I tell her, quickly (cause shes trying to hang up) that I've had my second full day of pain and anguish over the passing stone she says "do you want me to come back to take you to the hospital?" What. No, i mean i want you home yes but im not ready to pay a fortune for a hospital visit, (at this point I was only guessing that it was a kidney stone that was kickin my ass). she says "OK, Its not like I can do anything about it if im there...so."

OK so to shorten this up all of February went by and she was gone from me for 22 out of 28 days (i marked em on my calendar) at this point I tell her to tell me whats going on "is it another man or are you on drugs?" I ask, "no, neither one" she says. "Where the hell have you been and why don't you care that im believing you to be a lying and cheating coward" She, "im just trying to give you space, cause you've been saying your so unhappy" "WHAT? your kidding, then why not tell me your gonna do that? instead you leave for 3 or even 6 days in a row at one point. and you expect me to think that its all to benefit our relationship". No calls. No explanations and worst in my mind NO SEX! which we both are accustomed to having alot, with each other. Right then I knew She had betrayed my love. When I tell you that I was Faithful to her, Im telling the truth. It was as if a hammer had hit me square in the heart, I felt sick and angry. All I could say was "you have to leave this house" Cause I've already paid the rent and im not gonna have to look for a place. So that all brings me up to March 4th, 2013. She has moved all her shit out and still swearing up and down that she's not seeing anyone!

The very next day her step dad comes over to pick up something he lent me and I asked him to level with me, man to man about his step daughter....my ex. "is it another man or is it drugs?" No he says it's a guy. What guy? a guy that lives across the street from her moms house "bud"....he's know by others as the toothless Pot dealer :/ (by the way the kidney stone finaly passed out of me on the 27th of feb...thank God) So there it is, and I've got to say that over the years with sandra, similar things to this have happened, but on a shorter and smaller scale, and it makes me go....Hhmmm. right? Anyway im sitting here writing this with a small dull pain in my chest and something in my throat that feels like im swallowing an egg whole. Strange. This very same thing happened to me just over 8 years ago. a previous heartbreak with a another girl named... Sandi. She was Blonde also.

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