The Story
so i was with this one guy for two and a half to three years and we were very close. he was my first love and my first person to be with physically and my first heartbreak. he was my everything for a very long while. but our relationship was not all smiles and sunshine, we had alot of downs. he was what i called an obsessive cheater. he cheated on me seventeen times that i know about. they were all physical cheating. i dont know why i stayed with him for so long when he cheated on me but i guess i just was afraid of losing him and not being able to love someone else like i loved him. another major downside me and him shared was that he was extremely abusive to me, both verbally and physically. we would get in to some serious fights. one fight we got into got to the point where he pushed me up against the wall by my neck and he stabbed me in the thigh with his pocket knife. i finally decided about seven months ago that i need to just let go of him completely and that i dont need to be with him. so i texted him a very long message about how he needs to not be apart of my life. so that whole month or so after that was a hell for me. i became depressed and stuff and it was aweful but i pushed through it with the help of some friends and family. now i am with someone who i truely love from the bottom of my heart and he loves me. with him i have discovered that you dont have to hang on to someone who treats you poorly when you can always go and find someone who will treat you right and love you.
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