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Hello Everyone. Where shall I start? Well I met my now ex-boyfriend 2 years ago and we were smitten with each other. I never thought that I would meet someone like him, he was what I needed in my life especially after my best friend had just passed away 2 days prior to us meeting. We hit it off pretty well, never to know that he had his dirty damn fingers in my eyes, I mean I was so blinded by Love that he could do no wrong and I hung on to every word. Now here is where the soap opera begins.....

When I met him he had just broken up with his ex, so we were spending alot of our time together, 1 would think it could be a rebound, but like I said, he had his fingers in my eyes again telling me bad things of why it did not work out and he knew her for a few years. Then I learned of an ex-wife. He was only married and divorced to her for a month back in 2006, I gathered that she was still in the picture, but again with pure pleads and reassurance, he said he was not still messing with her but she did call from time to time to lay the guilt trip on him for not making the marriage work.

Anyway, I get a new place, get another car, and things are fine, I think I found the man of my dreams to be in me and my daughter's life, until a knock on my front door changed my life forever...It was the ex girlfriend and all her drama. So now he was still sleeping with her and I but denied it all when I asked him, now mind you, I am practically at his house or he is at my house, ALL THE TIME, so where did he find the time to creep off, where there's a will, there's a way I suppose. After the ex saw that she wasn't tempting me, she explained some things to me which would suddenly put me in the same predicament later on (you will know what I'm talking about soon enough). With this new found information coming to mind, I asked him was he still sleeping with the ex-wife as well, he said NO. But I knew he was lying, cause if you are doing one, you are doing the other. So you can tell I wasn't alarmed when he told me he needed to talk to me a week later. You guessed it, he was still sleeping with the ex-wife, and guess what, she was pregnant with his daughter. So this hounddog was sleeping with 3 women at one time, getting pregnant on the ex girlfriend who did not know he was probably even still seeing the ex-wife.

He claimed that she saw that they were not getting back together and she lied about being on birth control and said she wasn't having anymore abortions from him. I can see how some women have babies to try to keep a man or stay in his life some kind of way. The ex-wife was living in a shelter with her other 2 kids and he basically lived alone, some issues arised with my living situations, so instead of going back to my dad's house, he suggested I move in with him because we were together all the time anyway, always.

My daughter went to stay with my mom and sister in another state for what was to be temporarily but I got so entangled and stressed out that I was no good to anyone, that is also a mistake I made, I allowed him to not let me focus on my own child, I am being punished for that, but she was better off there than seeing the drama that was to continue to unfold.

The whole time I lived with him he kept his phone locked, but I could still see that the ex wife would call or text constantly, and she would call even more after he would visit with his little girl, I know, its obvious to you now, but I had fingers in my eyes! I continued to work tirelessly, he didn't work for almost 3 moths and then he found a job, but I was the one taking on the bulk of the responsibilities. For what I know now, he menatlly and verbally abused me, telling me that I was so pretty but I had this slutty look about me. He said that I looked like I would do the mailman, the milkman and anybody else, something he could not put his finger on, any man that looked at me or was in the area of where we were, he would accuse me of knowing them or looking at them or just asked if I knew them. Insecurities at its best, but he didn't trust me cause he couldn't trust himself. Then one day I had to use his phone and I saw that he was texting his ex girlfriend still and there was a message to the ex wife saying that he loved her. I was in shock cause by then, we were living together for almost 6 months and the baby was born shortly after I moved in with him. You live with me but you talking to other women, no wonder he kept his prehistoric phone locked, it held the secrets he kept like it was his mobile skeletons in the closet contraption.

Shortly after that, we tried to patch things up cause he still denied that he was sleeping with her, so like the loyal woman I am, I tried to have faith in him. We were suppose to move in together but those plans were foiled after I ran into the ex-wife at the library one day, I guess she saw her competition and she gave him an ultimatum, if u still want to be in my life, leave her or you will never see your daughter again unless through child support, and he took the bargain, now I'm back at my dad's house, alone and alone, broke down-busted and disgusted! He claimed that he heard a rumor about me at my job which is why he broke up with me, but he refused to bring the person forward. Then, what makes him so stupid, before all this came about, he knows 2 mutual friends of ours that works with me and they can tear down this rumor, but he mysteriously did not want to find out the truth, it was all too convenient for him, to cancel our plans and move alone to prove to the ex wife that he was not with me anymore so he could still sleep with her and spend time with his child. Even after I posed all this to him, he still denies it saying that she won't let him have his child alone and he is only spending time with his daughter; he would have still lived with me if it weren't for him hearing the rumor from a credible person. Now this is almost the same similar situation that led him to break up with the ex girlfriend that came to my house, now I was in the same damn boat, he is a repeat offender on all levels!


Even though we broke up, we were still messing around, but even if he believed this rumor of me sleeping around for money, he never tried to protect himself if he did believe, like I said STOOOOPID! I tried several times to leave his ass alone, but I was madly in love, we lived together only 9 months, together for 2 years, but I lasted longer than he did with his wife or any other woman for that matter, so I'm sure the critics despised that, no one likes rejection. I fight for my man too, I don't give up easy but this is ridiculous, I had to pop up at his apartment one night because he told me how much he missed me and wanted to see me, but he was with the ex-wife, I had to interrupt family time. He did say in front of both of us that he was not with anybody, but who knows with him. On Mother's day, he said that and said, LOVE U at the end of it, he never said he loved me, but you sy that why, especially after we had not spoken in a week and to mess with my head. He is a pimp without the money, mind control and mind games! I tried to stop messing with him then and I guess she thought I did too. This last time, I was trying to be a big girl and not call him since he is too stubborn to call first, but he did text and we started back talking, I guess the exwife did not like this so she emailed me(I don't know how she got it, he didn't have this one) and she told me some interesting facts.

I also found out that not only was he badmouthing her to me and would do the same to me to her, pretty foul right. She also told me that he took her out of town with her to see his family for Thanksgiving with his son and the new baby and one of the ex-wife's other kids. He told me that his mom was not comfy with me coming this time and he would still work on that. Not to mention I had just had an abortion from him earlier that day, and he left me alone while he played house at his mom's house. What really hurts, is that he did not even call to check on me, he said that his mom was taking up all his time, he is a momma's boy, did I mention that part of the baggage as well. Yep! The ex-wife said he didn't love me and he wants to remarry her and all the psycho-babble BS known to man. I don't believe all, but I am a believer, yet he denies and apologizes for the Thanksgiving trip faux-pas and that she uses that baby against him so much. I am not even gonna email her retarded ass back, I pick and chose my battles. He said he really does care for me alot but he is scared cause I am too good to be true and he thinks I will hurt him if he lets his guard down, but ladies and gentlemen, is this not the most idiological BS you have ever heard in your life, you take me thru all your drama and I still stick by you, but because you have not gotten over your ex-wife cause neither can let go, you make me look like the bad guy and believe your own lie to justify what you have been doing to me our entire now fake relationship! Yet this man does not see the error in his ways, he wants to keep going as if nothing ever happened, you have to forgive him, but he has a hard time forgiving you for the smallest of things.

Even now the ex-wife emailed me again saying that, he and here will always be sleeping together, she is not going anywhere, she and I will have to share him, is this not crazy to anybody else!?! Where is Ashton Kutcher, cause I'm done laughing,CUUUUUUUUT!

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