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We met one night at the bar (I know not a good way to start a relationship). What I thought was a fling turned into me immediately moving in and my falling head over heals in love.
He is a natural born flirt. He had told me his past. He's a cheater. He cheated on all of his ex's and why it should be no surprise cheated on me continuously, I have found out, the whole 3 years we were together.

My parents welcomed him into our family. His family became close with me as well. He told me everyday that he loved me and kissed me before he left for work.

He was always on Manhunt and sneaking around hiding the things he was doing online. He would just disappear for days at a time and not answer his phone. Why I put up with it for 3 years you may ask? Because I kept hoping that he would see how much I loved him and how much I was trying to do for our relationship and our future.

Over time he never wanted to have sex anymore. I bought us a boat and he never wanted to be on it with me. But come to find out he was using it to hook up with guys on....

The last straw was he disappeared AGAIN for a weekend and when he finally came home he admitted to cheating (only kissing he said, but I'm not stupid).

He said he didn't love me anymore. That I was just a REBOUND from his ex before me. He said he didn't want to be in a committed relationship (which is what he said he wanted b4).

So he proceeded (keep in mind we have a house together) to find a new young boy that he would have phone sex with every night in the guest room that I could hear. He kept taking off and traveled to see this guy and ended up losing his job because he was so irresponsible. Then he stole the money we had both put away for an upcoming trip. He stopped paying any bills (leaving me to have to pay) and finally he left.

He left with 2 suitcases of his belongings. All of his things are still here in storage. He says he doesn't have a way to get his belongings and that he's doing me a favor by letting me use some of his things. He does plan to come and get them sometime soon.

I could go on and on about all the bad things he did to me. But he could be very sweet and thoughtful. Unfortunately he used me and lied to me our whole relationship.

When he left he gave me the "Your a great guy and deserve a better boyfriend" speech. Nice huh?

He made a point to text me on Christmas day and tell me how his new little boy (not a bf) took him across country to spend the holiday with his family. That hurts SO bad....

He was my first bf. I loved him SO much. I so deserved to be treated better than that. I was devoted to him though. I lived and breathed him for 3 years. The idea of him having sex with multiple people while we were together and even now just tears me up. The lies, the deception, the lack of love on his behalf just destroys me. I feel like I am nothing.....

I know I did everything I could (more than I should ever of had too) to make our relationship work. I was a GREAT bf and lover and partner.

However, that doesn't make me feel any better lying awake all night alone in our bed. No one to spend my time with. All of my future plans gone.....While he's out not having a care in the world having a blast.

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