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Where do I start? Well in August of 2007 I meet JOEL 33 years old with 3 kids on the myspace site I don't have kids and was 29 years old..I know bad choice. We chatted online first for a month than we exchanged numbers. Remind you I have never meet anyone off any of these web sites let along get my heartbroken from someone off of these sites. So after talking over the phone and sending each other text messages for a little over a month and totally hitting it off with great conversations, laughing and joking around. He finally invited me out to have lunch with him one Saturday in October. Being the cautious person I am I decided to drive my own car and meet him at the restaurant.

This would be the day that changed my whole FREAKEN LIFE!! We plane to meet around 1pm mid-way into my drive I got a call from JOEL saying to meet him at a car dealership not to far from the restaurant. Ok I said I got there and seeing each other for the first time I think we both like what we saw. He said that he wanted to buy a car first and it would only take no more that 30mins. Oh yeah he was riding with a friend. So I waited and he was checking on me every 5mins making sure I was ok because I decided to sit in my car and wait since it was going to be only 30mins.

Well 30mins turned in to 45mins than 1 hour. I asked him how much longer will this take not only was I hunger it was really hot that day. After being so very patient and waiting almost 2 hours yes 2 hours I left and was kind enough to call him to let him know. I was so uoset that I finally after two years had meet someone that was nice and was going on a date, not to mention embrassed when I had told my mom and my friends and had to turn around and tell them when asked that there was no date. I did not answer his call the rest of the day or evening. The next day he called and wanted to see me like a total dummy I agreed he of course he apologized.

Here is when I make the biggest mistake of my whole entire life. After the weekend had passed he called me me doing the week right when I was getting ready to leave the office and invited me over. Which he actually lived between my office and my home so I wasn't going out of my way to see him. So arrived at his apartment he was such the gentleman kind curtious and sweet not to mention cute (to me). After talking for a hour laughing things got pretty heated, until I found myself having sex with him good sex! WOW!! After that he still called I asked him if we were just friends or was this more. He said just friends for now and we will see were things go.We had sex once sometime twice a week. But things begin to change he wasn't answering my phone calls, stop responding to me on myspace. But when I didn't call him he would dish out 100 questions why haven't I called am I seeing someone else etc. So asked him the same thing if he was seeing someone else he would never answer. If we are just friends I wouldn't matter.

So from Octiber to now January 2008 it seem like things was turning around until I went all nuts on him. I found empty condom wrappers in his waste basket in his room after we had sex. It was at least 10 and we had only slept togather 3 times since then. I left while he was in the shower I cried did'nt answer his call. Than it all came out I called him screaming and shouting and saying that he need to tell me that he is sleeping with other women I hung up on him. and he wouldn't answe my calls when I did call him back. So i did investigation and show another woman go into his apartment.

May he called and of course I went running like a fool yes we had sex. When I called him on morning to see if I can se him when I leave the office he said yeah. Of course when that time came he did'nt answer his phone so im calling and calling and calling and calling until I get there and by chance I saw him at his car he comes out looking totally freaked out and scared by now and he tell me that he was about to leave. WOW!!! So already filling like shit and confused and hurt from the previous months I hit rock bottom that day I was begging him to have sex with me. He stood his ground and I left I cried Oh I forgot to say that I have been crying non stop since January so this just added to it.

July he called yes I went and had sex why you ask do I do tis to myself I'll get to that in a second. After we had sex again. He didn't call the next weekend from Friday to Sunday I called and texted him nonstop I didn't sleep at all I wanted to know why and how and I really don't know why I was doing that. Finally Sunday he answered and asked my why was I doing this and all I can say is that I'm in love with him and wanted to be with him like he hasn't heard that from me before. And JOEL says we are just friends. I was floored beyond recovery I texted him the next day apologized to him and told him that I will never contact him ever in life again he text back ok.

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