The Story
I started dating a guy i'd worked with for a little over a year. Within the month, he'd moved in with me. (too quick, right? it was HIS idea)
Things were okay. We drank often. We went out a lot. We fought a LOT. But we made up a LOT. Passionate, i thought.
We decided to look for an apartment together two months later. We bought a dog together (though i paid fhe bulk of the money for him) and were fairly happy. He was a HUGE flirt at work with other women, and i'd heard more than one rumor at the office about sexual indiscretions he'd made with other girls prior to us dating.
We ended the relationship a week after we'd fallen through on our new lease. I was heartbroken. He took our dog, promising to bring him back two days later for our 'meet up'.
He never brought back the dog, and he to this day, owes me about 600$.
Two weeks after our break up, i found out i was pregnant with his child. I spent a long time trying to find the best way to tell him. Finally, he found out from a friend of a friend. He was SO angry. He denied that the baby was his, and later threatened that if i DIDNT get an abortion, he'd have the baby 'taken away from me'.
I'm now 16 weeks pregnant and i've not heard from him once. Except for him and his current girlfriend to prank call my cell phone.
He and i had planned on getting married. having children, sharing a life together. And now he's not even involved in this pregnancy or his own child.
Recently i found out there's complications with the baby, and he may be born with downs syndrome.
I'm not defeated, but it's a horrible feeling to feel like, you knew someone, only to find out you never knew them at all.
I have to see him next month because i 'm taking him to court to resolve the amt of money he still owes me and i'm SO not looking forward to it...He's a liar. He's abusive. He's sociopathic and he's heartless.
I'm afraid one day my son (ITS A BOY!!) will want to know about his father, and i wont know what to tell him...
Tomorrow's another day i guess...
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