Hi there,
Thanks for sharing your story. I can definitely relate to being attracted to people with problems. After growing up with an alcoholic, I was involved with many people who struggled with addiction. Ive been reading a book called Codependency No More by Melodie Beattie - she outlines these patterns, why we fall into them and how better to take care of ourselves (and ultimately) free ourselves from our painful attachments. Its a process, and doesnt happen over night. The book is a refreshing read and I think you may appreciate it too. Wishing you all good things on your journey~
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