In a way its good that you found out this aspect of his personality when you did, although I am so sorry at the shocking way that you did so. Many people are not who we think they are. But when the shocking truth comes to light we can free ourself from the one who is deceptive to us and is a liar. It is actually better for you that you are not with this person anymore, regardless of how sad you feel in your heart. It is a sorry man who does not man - up to his woman and tell her what is really going on in his life. I am actually happy for you in a way that I know will be better for you in the long run. You are no longer being lied to and you can feel good within yourself that you are not that type of person that he is. Feel the freedom from a liar instead of the pain of losing what you did not really have anyway. It was nothing you were or were not doing that made him do what he did. It was his moral choice and that is just who he is. The only difference is... Now you know it, TOO!
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